Spring clean your mind

By Pamela Allardice
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Stress relief

Just as too much booze and junk food can make your body sluggish, emotional baggage — in the form of negative thoughts, mental blocks and limiting self-beliefs — can clog up your mind. These three steps can help you to change:

  • Do the opposite
    If something feels comfortable, it's natural to keep doing it. But sometimes the reason it feels safe is because it's familiar, not because it's right or best for you. Think about why you've made certain choices and whether they were good ones. Every so often, break the pattern — and do the opposite to what you would usually do.

  • Don't try to be perfect
    Learning to like yourself, just as you are, sets you free. Every time guilt raises its ugly head, push it away. Don't beat yourself up about things in the past: the only thing that is really important now is that you have learned from your actions. Accept that you can't change the past or other people's behaviour — but you can change the way you think about them.

  • Loosen up
    If you only feel comfortable in a black-and-white world where there are absolute rights and wrongs, you are setting yourself up for problems. A rigid outlook will deny you the opportunity to appreciate other viewpoints and to consider different options in your life; you also risk alienating people because you are only listening to those things they say that you agree with. Commit to being softer, more open and understanding.

Your say: How will you spring clean your mind the year? Share your tips below...

User comments
Eat omega fish oil capsules and be nicce to every1 and everything.....be the best man, anywhere anytime
I think signing out of my hotmail account and reading a positive article like this would make a world of difference..... ....compared to the ridiculous amount of human degradation and superficiality via media..... Almost everyday I sign out of my account and am redirected to msn.com where, wham, there's a story about some multiple murder-suicide staring me in the face straight up. Yes the stories are interesting and I empathise very deeply, but man I wish you would break the chain, look at the BIGGER picture and use your imagination, it's a big world outside the murders of a handful westerners.
yes have sex more often and stop weighing into these stupid a*holes *** on about infertility if iwas a doctor id recommend ...having friday afternoons off work
If you want your husband to organise something for your wedding anniversary, or at least *remember* your wedding anniversary, then let him know. Don't spend the whole week wondering whether he'll remember, then waiting for a surprise on the day, and then getting bitter as the day draws on and nothing happens. What a waste of mindspace!

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