Falling in love again

Michael Sheather
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
"I thought crickets were little insects that jumped around in the garden... I knew nothing about cricket."
— Sara Leonardi
Michael Sheather
After his beloved wife Jane died, Glenn McGrath thought he could never love another woman. Yet fate has proved him wrong.

Glenn McGrath is clearly a man in love. You can see it in the way he walks, the way he speaks, the easy way he breaks into a smile. Yet most of all, you can see it in his eyes and in the way he looks at the woman who sits beside him in the living room of his home in southern Sydney.

In pictures: 2008, the year that changed the McGraths' lives

Sara Leonardi, a beautiful 28-year-old American of Italian descent, is sitting beside Glenn, her hand entwined in his. They exchange looks every few moments, touch each other on the leg or arm as a sign of support, their closeness and intimacy all the more natural for the fact that they are probably unaware that they are doing it.

Yet it is a measure, nonetheless, of how close this couple has become. Glenn has known Sara for just 10 months, but in that short time, she has transformed his life.

Glenn, 40, is a widower and father of two beautiful children, James, 10, and Holly, eight, two of the legacies of his 12-year union with wife Jane, who died in June 2008, after an 11-year battle with cancer.

“After Jane passed away, I never thought that I could love another woman, that I could have another partner,” says Glenn. “I was adamant about that. I never thought I would fall in love with anyone else, but I am in love with Sara, totally and completely and absolutely. I fought against that for a time, fought as hard as I could, but in the end it was useless. When Jane died, it felt as though a part of me died, too. But now I feel alive again and that’s due to Sara. I went into this not just to see how things would go. I wanted this. This is the rest of my life.”

Your say: How do you feel about this story? Are you happy for Glenn and his children? Share your thoughts below...

To read more about Glenn and Sara's love story pick up the March issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly out now.

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For those of you who have chosen to vent your anger against Sara and Glenn's union, shame on you. Have you ever lost a loved one in such tragic circumstances? I have, and I guarantee you, if my uncle (who lost his wife, my aunt, in the most tragic way) finds love again, then I'll be on the sidelines cheering. How dare you think you know how this feels. Don't forget, you all go home to your partners, husbands, wives at night, and shame on you for wishing to take that chance away from him. Yes he has children, and he clearly adores them and they are a great source of pride. His children will grow up, move out and have their own lives. Besides - you can't fool children. The media always portrays them looking pretty damn happy to me. And don't forget, it was Jane's wish that he found love again. I think a lot of you have been burnt by your own experiences and think the same applies here. Get a life - Glenn did!
Hopefully people will trust Glenn's judgement to make his own decisions on marriage. Marriage is a lottery and as a 73 year old married for 48 years I got better than I deserved. The average lifetime of a marriage in Australia is 7 years. I am sure a prenuptial agreement will be prepared as Glenn's children from his first marriage could be protected. Its not a lack of trust to want one its a matter of good housekeeping and protection for the vulnerable. However adults make their own decisions. Quite frankly some of the assumptions made in previous entries are over the top.
I don't trust this girl as far as i could throw her. Gold digger. As for him, wouldn't surprise me if this had been going on before Jane died. Why rush into a marriage after only 6 months and after something so devostating.......not right!!!
Glenn I admire your guts for coming out about this. For those who are against this please be respectful. Where does the two year requirement to be in morning come from?? I am 60 and 11 months ago lost my darling wife of 32 years to cancer. She passed away 3 weeks after we found out her circumstances. I can't fathom how and why this happened and have been traumitised and depressed since. My love for her will never diminish EVER. I read the article about Glenn and Sara and cried - his sentiments about Jane and his love for her and not thinking anything else was possible is exactly how I feel - still. The funny thing is that recently I came in contact with a lady friend who knew me and my wife. Over several coffee chats and a later lunch our talks have gone from her consoling me to enjoying each others company. What then SHOULD I do? This lady is very caring - I'm not in love and don't know where this will end BUT do I bypass her for 2 years?? Or do I follow Glenn's lead?
To lee, tralee, pete. No not unfair, not negative. Perceptive comments that see through the spin. Lee from Victoria's comment suggests a great breadth of shallowness, a true narcissist, this comment says it all about modern society - me, me, me & no concept of decorum, respect and honour. If by 'Get A Life' you mean that one should be self-absorbed, pleasure seeking, lacking empathy - DON'T WANT IT. Life is not a journey about the Self, & Self gratification. McGrath was NOT ALONE. He has two beautiful children, friends and family. In my view, Sara appears to be nothing more than a pleasure seeking, celebrity seeking narcissist. Just an observation- living with someone is different to marrying them. Marriage might help McGrath see the true nature of his fiancée but too late by that stage. My heart goes out to Holly & James. Pete from UK try to think with the other head for once, you might discover someone other than yourself.
So what if a guy gets engaged after less then two years of his wife's death and wants to have kids. If you all are worried Sara will turn out like Cinderella's evil stepmother just wait a year then see how she turns out with Jane's kids.
How wonderfully awesome. You alone know when you are ready, and regardless of what has happened to you in the past, if you are happy now, and plan for it to stay that way, well done. You are no longer a married man. You are a widower, and its lovely that you have love in your life xx
Absolutely NO-ONE has the right to judge anyone in this world. We are all equal human beings finding our way. Glenn can choose anyone he likes to share his life with - I don't care how long its been since Jane died! Life is for the living!!!!!!!!!!! All you people who say "it's too soon" or similar comments should walk a mile in his shoes and see how a week feels on your own let alone 2 years. Congratulations Glenn and Sara and may you enjoy sharing the rest of your lives together x
How dare all you negative people judge Glenn, you have no idea what he and the children have been thru. You all sit there and judge him. Jane was sick for a long time before she died and Glenn was there thru it all, he is the most loyal person you could ever meet. And for the comment "no respect for Jane", how would you even know, you believe everything thing the media says?? What makes you think that Jane would want Glenn to be lonely for the rest of his life and for all you know Jane might of made Glenn promise to move on.
You know....The only resonson we know about what is going on in Glen's life is because he is in the media, so why do we have to be so judgemental about his life. Maybe we need to look in our own back yards before we comment on others. all the best to them both.

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