Sonia Kruger: Life after divorce

Wendy Squires
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
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When Sonia Kruger’s marriage broke up, she turned to her life-long friend, Todd McKenney, for support. Amazingly, as she tells Wendy Squires, Todd stepped in with not only love and comfort, but a heartfelt offer to father her much-wanted child.

It’s said the true test of a friendship is being there through the tough times, as well as the good. Sonia Kruger discovered this to be true when she separated from her husband of six years, banker James Davies, last November. Aware that there would be fallout in the press, along with unwarranted rumour and innuendo surrounding the 43-year-old’s newly single status, Sonia’s life-long friend, radio partner, Dancing with the Stars co-star and one-time boyfriend Todd McKenney whisked her off on a holiday to Bali.

Todd knew how intense unwanted media attention can be, having been through a highly embarrassing drug incident (the charges were later dropped) only months earlier. Considering it was Sonia who stood by him steadfastly throughout the very public backlash, the opportunity to take her away for some quiet R and R seemed serendipitous.

It was while they were on the Indonesian holiday island that Sonia says she and Todd talked long into the night, having deep discussions about relationships, children and what really matters in life. It was during one of these conversations that Sonia revealed to Todd her deep yearning for a child and her fears that, at 43 and single again, her dream may no longer be a possibility.

“I told him how, when I hold a newborn baby, I get an overwhelming feeling that this is something I don’t want to miss out on,” Sonia reveals in a candid interview with The Weekly. “We talked about how difficult it is for women like me, who have a biological clock ticking loudly, and he was incredibly understanding and supportive. And that’s when he turned to me and offered to father a child for me.”

Aware that his offer may be viewed as controversial to some, Sonia says, “I know Todd would be a great father to any child. He already is to little Charlotte [the two-year-old daughter he fathered with close friend, Anne Wood].

“I have never seen anyone so excited by a child in my life. The thing about Todd is that I know he would be the greatest support to me, which is what you need if you are to go ahead and have children.”

There is no doubt there is a special bond between Sonia and Todd, evident as the couple spark off each other during their breakfast radio show on MIX 106.5 FM on a chilly Sydney morning.

To read more about Sonia's choice, see the July issue of The Australian Women's Weekly, out now.

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go for it sonia, you ahve our full support.... there's nothing worse than a couple who divorce with out children, and one or both wanted children.... todds a great support for you!!!
Yes Sonia , go for it not many had time for beeing happy and get what they wished for, but if the time is right , god bless you, Be Happy,,
hmm, she can have mine!
I have met a lot worse people, with a lot worse excuses to have a baby. Go for it.
If two people decide to have a child, one of the most important things is that they love each other and the baby as much as they can. A lot of couples get married but they are not even friends with each other. I think that a good friendship with your partner will help you both solve any problems that will come up between each other and from outside sources. A good sense of humour also helps.
I think Sonia would not be a good mother for the simple fact she leaves a perfectly good marriage for a single life, Then wants a baby , grow up Sonia, there is more to life that being a single mum,at least money wouldnt be a problem for help in raising it and getting someone to look after it while you get your cosmetically lifted face on every channel and in every book.
The best of blessings is your own child-Sonia,you know what your heart is saying-listen to it and may God Bless you! Blondie
If you have the love & yearning for a child Sonia may God Bless you & your unborn Child. Only you know what your heart is saying! All the Blessings that the good Lord can give you is my wish for you.Mother of three.
How many times do i have to type this - people who post comments on websites are expressing their opinion. If others don't like it THEN TOUGH LUCK, EH ! Read the comment guidelines, PLEASE. You are not supposed to comment on or attack someone else's expressed opinion. For crying out loud !
" Shock horror ! Someone disagrees with me!!! I'll shriek and yell and get upest, because nobody's allowed to do that !!!!! Ooo eer !!!" Go 'prancer' - a wise and lone voice of dissent. The world needs us, desperately. So many lemmings running for such a big cliff, - and so little time..............

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