Heartbreak could be deadlier than you think!

Friday, June 26, 2009

A turbulent love life might cause more serious issues for women than just reaching for that tub of ice cream, box of chocolates or soppy DVD.

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Alarmingly, hypertension, abdominal obesity, high blood sugar, high triglycerides and low levels of HDL, or "good" cholesterol in women have been linked to the anger, conflict and hostility experienced in rocky relationships. This new research suggests that while these stresses still have an effect on men, for reasons scientists don't quite understand yet, they appear to take more of a toll on women.

Tim Smith from the University of Nevada in the US is a psychology professor and co-author of this study of women in dysfunctional relationships and has suggested that the difference in the way heartbreak affects men and women may in fact come down to the female view of romance.

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"Women are quicker to notice when things are not going well in relationships, more so than men," he said. According to Smith, women are more troubled by this awareness and are more likely to then work harder at doing something to solve the problem than men. Smith said: "you can look at that as a cumulative burden that is a source of chronic stress."

The study also suggests that women's self-identities are more deeply rooted in relationships than men. Nancy Henry, a doctoral student in psychology and the lead author on the study said: "It's not saying men don't want close relationships, but it's saying their 'self-construe' is based on things in society at large."

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Heart disease is a lead killer of both men and women, so working to unravel the disparity between the two genders is imporant, researchers say. The study also looked at metobolic syndrome or insulin resistance among these couples because of its relationship to heart disease and the fact that depression — which could be caused by a failing relationship — could induce metabolic syndrome.

Tim Smith said that the research was too preliminary to conclude that women "would lower their risk of heart disease if they improved the tone and quality of their marriages — or dumped their husbands."

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I totally agree with 'Emotions & Health' I've been a Christian for over 10 years and have only known of 2 couples that have had a divorce in all that time. There is help out there, we somtimes just need to look in the 'right' place. Ferv
I agree totally!!! My health has diminished drastically since my relationship has gone bad. Loss of weight, little to no sleep, anxiety attacks and depression came very soon after the problems started.
I agree totally!!! My health has diminished drastically since my relationship has gone bad. Loss of weight, little to no sleep, anxiety attacks and depression came very soon after the problems started.
My health has definately been extremely affected. I have suffered insomnia, loss of appetite, weight loss, extreme stress, heart palpitations, and even hair loss during the worst period in my relationship. While my male partner (who cheated on me) has been fine all along and shown absolutely no signs of physical symptoms related to our relationship problems.
I agree 100%, I think the key is to have absolutely no expectation on a male, so you wont get dissappointed.
I think to goes without saying. Too many insecure people creates snowball effect on relationships. Woman have strong psychic intuition, they can read dysfunction early in the peace, thing is not to ignore it. It can be very damaging. Men are more the nomads, they can roam and stay detached and dont necessarily need to sort things out, as their nomads.
After 23 years in relationship and now separated in the last 10months, I'm finally feeling the stress and weight lifting off my shoulders. See for many years I felt bullied, put down and just plain old 2nd in my husbands life, but I loved him. I was always the bread winner, seeing him quiting one job after another. I waited untill he was ready for things like kids , I played the patient waiting game hoping that one day he would be as ready and responsible as I was. Instead of taking care of myself he always come 1st. When my husband walked out on our family after a fit of anger it took me a long time to get over it. My tears were endless and my health was going down hill, I felt depressed and felt like this sick feeling would never go away, but now after many months apart I have realised that my life is so much calmer, my stress level has dropped even though I'm now a single mum. My relationship was extremely stressful and the last 10 months have taken it's toll on me.
Doc to married female patient - "Your cholesterol is high. I recommend losing weight." Married female patint to Doc- "I know how I can lose 82kg and lower my cholesterol. I'll file for divorce first thing tommorow morning!" hehehe!
I think it's very clear that stress, whether it's related to relationship troubles, work issues, or other things in a person's life has an effect on a person's health. Perhaps relationship trouble is one of the worst because it could be the most important thing in one's life, above work and other things.
Absolutely true! Biblically speaking too!! Prov 13 vs12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick. Prov 12 vs25 An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up. Prov 14 vs30 A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. Prov 17 vs22 A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. REMEDY TO GUARD YOUR HEART- Phil 4 vs6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. PUT YOUR TRUST IN GOD HE IS FAITHFUL!!!

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